traveling thoughts

i flew to NJ today. as i took the train from Newark down the coast to my grandparent's house, i thought about two things:

1) as soon as i arrive in NJ i am always ruder, more impatient, & more hurried. i think i subconciously feel i HAVE to act this way in NJ in order to relate to the culture here.

2) northern NJ is a trashy crap hole